Find Your Better You: Join Our Private Alcohol-Free Community

Are you ready to break free from that exhausting and seemingly endless cycle of Day 1’s? 

As a 501c3 non-profit organization, Café RE's mission is to support individuals in their journey to sobriety and personal growth and have fun (yes, fun!) doing it. 👍

In Café RE, you'll find a group of sober warriors who are not just getting by but thriving in a life without alcohol. The common denominator? We embraced the belief that the opposite of addiction is connection.

Every single member of Café RE has been where you are right now. 

But we leaned into this community, picked up so many tools & resources from our fellow members along the way, and slowly but surely learned just how beautiful a life of sobriety can be. 

We hope you'll join us—it's pretty awesome over here!

If any of this sounds familiar to you—you're in the right place, my friend:

• You have Googled things like “how to quit drinking” or “how to know if you are an alcoholic.”
• You’ve started listening to sobriety podcasts or maybe even ordered a few quit-lit books.
• Too often, you wake up swimming in a pool of regret, wondering what you did or who you called the night before. You tell yourself that TODAY IS THE DAY you’re not drinking, but by 4 or 5 p.m., you find a drink in your hand again.
• Your drinking is starting to affect your mental health, physical health and it is certainly not helping your relationships or trajectory at work. 
• You’ve tried many moderation techniques, like only drinking on weekends, swapping to beer instead of hard liquor, or limiting yourself to a certain number of drinks per week. None of them have worked, and you end up feeling more disappointed in yourself when you fall back into the same cycle.
• You feel like you are the only person with this problem and don’t understand why you can’t just handle your booze like everyone else (spoiler alert: you are NOT alone in this struggle; it is so much more common than society would like us to believe).
• You’re terrified to tell anyone about it because you fear what people will think of you, and what it will look like to actually do something about it, but you know you can’t continue down the path you’re on right now.
• You've listened to every episode of the Recovery Elevator Podcast.

...and the biggest one: you’re sick and tired of feeling sick and tired. 

Whether you're looking to quit for a month, a year, or are simply sober curious, Café RE offers the support and connection you need to succeed on your sobriety journey.

At Café RE, we have seen firsthand how the transformative power of community, connection, and accountability can help you achieve the alcohol-free life you've been dreaming of.

Addiction, by its nature, isolates us. Embracing community and having a safe place to share your struggles (and your wins—there will be lots of them, we promise!) is one of the best antidotes you can find.

The Café RE Experience

In Café RE, you'll find an unbelievably supportive community, life-changing courses, and opportunities to join in-person gatherings to help catapult you into sober living in the best ways possible. 

As a member, you'll have the opportunity to…

• Build meaningful and supportive friendships with like-minded individuals living a sober lifestyle. (Fun Fact: 98% of our members report being extremely satisfied, very satisfied, or satisfied with their Café RE experience!)

• Participate in alcohol-free events that will quickly help you realize how much more fun everything from concerts to coffee dates can be when you're actually present for them. (Fun Fact: 63% of Café RE members have hit 90 days alcohol-free, 45% have hit 1 year alcohol-free & over 1,000 members have participated in in-person events!)

• Broaden your perspective on sober living to propel your personal growth and recovery journey. (Fun Fact: Over 10,000 members have signed up for Café RE and the average member sticks around for about 19 months!)

• Learn from members who have been with us for years and have awesome insights to share.

• Explore various paths to sobriety, whether through in-house AA meetings, Recovery Dharma, or general discussion sessions.

• Give back by hosting chats, leading discussions, or initiating activities like book clubs and yoga classes.

Join Café RE and embrace your alcohol-free life, my friend. It might seem scary now, but there is a whole community of folks who understand where you're at right now because they've been there too. They've made it through to the other side and are ready to lift you up to join the (sober) party.

Why Café RE?

A Diverse, Supportive Community

Our members come from all walks of life and follow various paths to sobriety. Whether you prefer AA meetings, Recovery Dharma, or other approaches, you'll find your place here.

Peer-Led Initiatives

Many members who join us for support end up leading initiatives, hosting chats, and giving back to the community. At Café RE, you'll find both the help you need and opportunities to help others.

Courses to Help You On Your Sober Path

We offer a range of courses designed to support and enhance your alcohol-free life. From exploring your creativity with ukulele classes to practicing mindfulness and engaging in journaling and writing, there's something for everyone at every stage of their sobriety journey.

Enjoy the Journey

Our philosophy is encapsulated in Rule #22: Lighten Up. Recovery isn't just about hard work—it's about enjoying the journey and celebrating every victory. Laughter and joy are essential parts of the process. At Café RE, we take things one awesome day at a time.

What You Get with Your Membership

Monthly Subscription ($24/Month)

📱 Access to our private community via the Cafe RE app

🤝 Option to pair with an accountability partner

🌍 First dibs and discounts on Café RE retreats and sober travel trips (think: Costa Rica, Southeast Asia, the world is legit our oyster!)

💻 Over 80 Zoom chats per month (2-5 daily)

📚 Two 5-week courses per year exclusive to members

You’re Not Alone.

Imagine being surrounded by people who understand exactly what you're going through. In Café RE, you'll find a supportive network of individuals from around the world who share your goal of living an alcohol-free life. No judgment, no stigma, no explanation needed—just open, honest conversations.

Quitting drinking alone is nearly impossible. With the support of the Café RE community, it's not a matter of if you'll quit, but when. 

Real Stories, Real Support

Hear from our members about their journey with Café RE.

“Joining Café RE was one of the best decisions I have made for myself in recovery. Being surrounded by like-minded individuals who are all working to improve their lives is not only inspiring but also essential to understanding that we deserve a shot at recovering. Café RE is family to me. I’m grateful for it every day.” – Odette, 30, San Diego, CA

“Cafe RE was a game changer for me. When I first decided to stop drinking, I was way too intimidated to attend meetings in my area; Also, as a busy parent and professional, it was difficult to find the time. Cafe RE is an instant community of like-minded individuals that truly care about each other.  I especially love the flexibility— between webinars, posts, and in-person meetups, I can be as involved as I need to be any hour of the day or night. I have been a part of other online groups, and this one is by far the most active and supportive.” – Tiffany, 34, Westminster MD

“I joined Cafe RE 2 weeks after my last drink and it has been pivotal in my recovery. The connections I have made and the support I have received, has been significant in my long term sobriety. I have been able to form long lasting friendships with members who I now consider my chosen family. 💙” – Andrea, 60, Cambria, CA

“For me, participating in the CafeRE community was the missing piece to my sobriety puzzle and has helped me attain my longest stretch of sobriety in over 40 years. Regularly attending online chats has allowed me to build a network of sober friends, taught me a tremendous amount about myself, and provided a loving/supportive/non-judgemental community in which I am thriving. Your path to sobriety may be different than mine, but joining CafeRE has been exactly what I needed to build the pride, knowledge, accountability, and community I needed to make my sobriety finally stick. Good luck on your journey.” – Dave, 62,  Portage, MI

“I joined Cafe RE in 2019 when I was 3 weeks sober. It was the place I could go for support, comfort, connection and a platform for me to be vulnerable. It was my safe place and I owe my long term sobriety that I have today to that community.”- Megan, 40, Cumming, GA

Frequently Asked Questions

I’m worried about privacy. Are the chats and community private?

Our community safety and privacy are important to us at Café RE. Only members have access to the Zoom information and Community. However, if you choose to show your face and your name in the meetings or community we cannot guarantee your complete privacy or anonymity. That being said, our community values include trust and respect. What is said in the meeting/chat stays in the meeting/chat.  For more information on our Privacy Policy, please click here. 

What is the current fee for Café RE?

It’s tough to put a price on something that has the potential to improve every aspect of your life. Currently, access to this community is only $24 per month. If you decide this isn’t for you, not a problem, you'll find the option to unsubscribe from automatic renewals under Your Purchases.  For any subscriptions you purchased on the web, you'll see a "Cancel Subscription" button.

I can't afford the membership right now. Do you have scholarships?

We do! Email [email protected] to enquire about what we have available.  

Where does my membership fee go?

Ten percent of monthly membership fees (after expenses are covered) go towards our yearly service project. Another portion goes to the independently organized Café RE meet-ups, where food and activities are covered. Member fees also ensure the lights are turned on, covering costs such as insurance, payroll, contractors, accounting, hosting fees, etc. We are new to the nonprofit world and are still honing in our focus on what we want to start fundraising for, but we would like to explore in-person coffee shops. You can learn more about our charitable efforts here. 

Are monthly membership fees tax deductible?    

At first, we heard YES! Then No. Then YES again. But the correct answer is NO, membership fees are NOT tax-deductible and the reason is that members are receiving a “service” (access to the community, courses, paired with an accountability partner etc.) for their monthly fee.

What is your cancellation and refund policy?

We do not offer refunds but you can cancel at any time. To cancel, in the Café RE Community, go to your Personal Settings and then to Your Plans and Purchases. See our terms and conditions for more info on this policy. 

Is this a 12-step program?

No, it is not.  We embrace individuals from all recovery paths, practices, religions, backgrounds, and walks of life!  

Can you tell me more about the virtual chats?

We have multiple chats per day, approx 25 per week. Community Chats, Mens Meetings, Womens Meetings, LGBTQ+, AA, Recovery Dharma, Yoga, Family & Relationships, Book Studies, and many other topics. These are community-led chats. We are not Mental health professionals, this is peer support.  

Can I join the virtual chats by computer or phone?

All of our meetings (we call them chats) take place on Zoom. You can simply join from your browser or via the App on your mobile device.

Do I have to speak or show my face in chats?

Never! Sharing is always optional, and showing your face is not required, but we do encourage it!  You can also engage with the community, which is incredibly valuable!

Are courses included with Café RE membership?

Yes! Well, some of them. We host 5-week courses on everything from the “What, Why & How” of quitting drinking to mindfulness, journaling and Ukelele which are free for Café RE members. We have some courses available at an additional cost as well. 

Where do I go to download the app?    

Go here to download the app on iOS, and go here to download the app on Android.